Friday 9 March 2012

Childlike Playfulness That Charms a Man


I have posted another example of childlikeness (the cuteness in us all that charms men) to help you gain a better understanding of "how". The extract below comes from James Barrie's book The Little Minister and comments within this extract come from Fascinating Womanhood and are written in italics. Notice how exceptionally cute the herion is and imagine how cute she would be to a man (James Barrie in this instance since she is his creation). Even I could not help giggling at her playfulness.

Babbie had tricked the little minister into helping her escape through a line of soldiers by pretending to be his wife: Gavin was furious. “It was beautiful,” she exclaimed clapping her hands merrily. “It was iniquitous,” he answered, “and I, a minister.” After listening to his scolding, Babbie’s face changed and she became as a child. “I am sorry,” she said, as if he had caught her stealing jam. The hood had fallen back, and she looked pleadingly at him. She had the appearance of one who was entirely in his hands...
 “I do not understand you,” Gavin said weakly. “Only a few hours ago you were a gypsy girl in a fantastic dress... Now you fling a cloak over your shoulders and become a fine lady. Who are you?” Babbie answered mischievously, “Perhaps it is the cloak that has bewitched me.” She slipped out of it. “Aye,” she said, as if surprised, “It was just the cloak that did it, for now I’m a poor ignorant little lassie again. My goodness, but clothes do make a difference to a woman.” This was sheer levity, so the dignified minister walked away, but he was charmed.

Gavin looked with horror on Babbie’s wild gypsy ways. When he met her at the old mill to receive the money for Nanny, he intended to reprimand her. Before she arrived he was practicing aloud what he intended to say to her: “how dare you bewitch me? In your presence I flung away the precious hours of the Sabbath; I even forgot the Sabbath... I am an unworthy preacher of the Word...Nevertheless...I call on you, before we part, never to meet again, to repent of your-“ and then he heard Babbie singing from a fir tree.
 “Where are you?” Gavin cried in bewilderment. “I am watching you from my window so high,” answered the Egyptian; and then the minister, looking up, saw her peering at him from a fir. “How did you get up there?” Gavin asked in amazement. “On my broomstick,” Babbie replied and sang on. “What are you doing up there?” Gavin said, wrathfully. “This is my home,” she answered. “I told you I live in a tree.” “Come down at once,” ordered Gavin, to which the singer responded by continuing her Scottish ballad.
 The next instant a snowball hit his hat. “That is for being so cross,” she explained... “Why are you so nasty to today, and oh, do you know you were speaking to yourself?” “You are mistaken,” said Gavin, severely. “I was speaking to you, or rather I was saying to myself what-“ “What you decided to say to me?” said the delighted gypsy.
 “Do you prepare your talk like sermons? I hope you have prepared something nice for me. If it is very nice, I may give you this bunch of holly.” “I don’t know that you will think it nice,” the minister answered slowly, “but my duty-“ “If it is about duty,” entreated Babbie, “don’t say it. Don’t, and I will give you the berries.” She took the berries from her dress, smiling triumphantly the while like one who had discovered a cure for duty; and instead of pointing the finger of wrath at her, Gavin stood expectant.
 “But no,” he said, remembering who he was and pushing the gift aside, “I will not be bribed. I must tell you-“ “Now,” said the Egyptian sadly, “I see you are angry with me. Is it because I said I live in a tree? Do forgive me for that dreadful lie.” She had gone down on her knees before he could stop her, and was gazing imploringly at him, with her hands clasped. “You are mocking me again,” said Gavin, “but I am not angry with you. Only you must understand-“
 She jumped up and put her fingers to her ears. “You see I can hear nothing,” she said. “Listen while I tell you-“ Gavin continued. “I don’t hear a word. Why do you scold me when I have kept my promise? If I dared take my fingers from my ears I would give you the money for Nanny. And, Mr Dishart, I must be gone in five minutes.”
“In five minutes,” echoed Gavin, with such a dismal face that Babbie heard the words with her eyes and dropped her hands. “Why are you in such haste?” he asked, taking the five pounds mechanically, and forgetting all that he had meant to say. “Because they require me at home,” she answered, with a sly look at her fir.
 “Would you like to hear all about me?” she asked. “Do you really think me a gypsy?” Then in the middle of the conversation, she had him stand back-to-back to see which was the taller. “Let us measure,” she said sweetly, putting her back to his. “You are not stretching your neck, are you?” 
Then, as she was to go she said, “I know why you are looking so troubled. You think I am to ask you the colour of my eyes and you have forgotten again.” He would have answered but she checked him. “Make no pretence,” she said severely; “I know you think they are blue.” She came close to him until her face almost touched his. “Look hard at them,” she said solemnly, “and after this you may remember that they are black, black, black.” At each repetition of the word she shook her head in his face. She was adorable. He was enchanted. He would have put his arms around her but she ran away.

Wednesday 7 March 2012

New Post under Bits and Bobs



You get ready to make a delicious dessert with the tub of cream you bought last week but when you open it you find that it is turning sour. Your first reaction will be disappointment and irritation but don’t let your impulse angrily throw it in the bin. Change your approach and use the sour cream in a quiche!